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"The largest viewer category for hardcore porn is teenage boys between the ages of 12-17."
The Effects of Pornography Pornography is the third largest income producer for organized crime—eight to ten billion dollars per year! To fully understand the enormity of the porn industry, consider that it is twice as lucrative as the disposable diaper industry, which a few years ago produced four billion dollars a year (and we see diapers everywhere—often even in places we don’t care to see them). Yet pornography still outsells diapers two to one! It too is everywhere; there are more adult bookstores in the United States than McDonald’s hamburger outlets. And it is affecting our children. The largest viewer category for hardcore porn is teenage boys between the ages of 12-17. And while some claim that photographs and movies do not influence us, we need to ask: If photographs don’t affect our behavior, then why do companies spend billions of dollars every year for 30- and 60-second ads? Apparently, successful businesses believe visual images influence behavior. Webster’s dictionary defines pornography as “writings, pictures, etc. intended primarily to arouse sexual desire.” The intent is to stimulate sexual arousal, and it is very effective. The National Study Commission on Pornography (1970 and 1986) said, “One in five boys and one in ten girls have their first exposure to hardcore, illegal pornography (obscenity) by age 12.” In a 1991 speech, Dr. Victor Cline, a psychiatrist and leading authority on the addictive nature of pornography—especially on teenagers, said, “A New York psychiatrist, Frederick Wortham, works with troubled children who have done terrible things. One day, after many years of working with disturbed children who had committed heinous crimes, he came to the conclusion that a child’s mind is like a bank; whatever you put into it you get back ten years later, with interest! There is no way that you can put garbage in a child’s mind and not reap negative effects years down the road.”
Many studies have proven that pornography
can lead to violence! Many serial killers got their start in the web of
porn.
Pornographers have become more crafty in
their attempts to reel victims in! Many of these smut factories
find well known sites on the web and get an
almost identical web address so that if the person trying to
get to a favorite site types one wrong letter, it takes them to a porn
site! I have found that this is a rather common tactic and one we
should all be wary of!
Did you know if you visit a
site called the White House, a porn site will pop up. What if
an innocent child happened upon this site while doing research for
school??? This could begin an addiction before he even hits
puberty!
Another tactic that these porn sites are
using, "Attack of the pop-ups".
You accidentally click on a site window and find out it is a porn site.
You try to close this window and it won't close and suddenly you find
yourself bombarded by window after window that will not let you escape
unless you cut your computer off! This is one of their main
tactics to pull people in and make them slaves to pornography!
Pornographers will take a name
such as Mark and come up with every possible email address using that
name and send out their porn in groups. You can block the email
address, however they will send you emails again under another
address. Many of these emails have a unsubscribe button, but
when you reply to the email, you quickly find that the address doesn't
exist! Once you attempt to unsubscribe, you will probably
get 10 more, because they now know this is a good email address.
Shaping of Attitudes and Relationships
Young people growing up in our already overly sexualized culture are being exposed to sexually explicit material on a daily basis through network television, movies, music and the Internet. Children are being subjected to sexual material and messages before they are mentally prepared to understand or evaluate what they are viewing. In addition, the majority of sex education is taking place in the media, not in the home, church or school. Below are some of the common, but false messages sent by our sexualized culture.
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The internet's all-pervasive sexualized
media environment affects childhood learning Child Health News Published: Wednesday, 2-Mar-2005 A special issue of the Journal of Applied
Developmental Psychology devoted to research on children and the electronic
media, conducted at the National Science Foundation-funded Children's
Digital Media Center, includes these findings, among many others.
Not only will children seeking pornography
"find it all over the Internet," but children who are not seeking
pornography are often inadvertently exposed to it when they conduct Internet
searches on perfectly appropriate subjects, said Patricia Greenfield, UCLA
psychology professor and director of UCLA's Children's Digital Media Center
(CDMC). "Childhood used to be a time of relative
innocence for many children," Greenfield said, "but with today's
all-pervasive sexualized media environment, that is no longer the case. By
late childhood, it has become very difficult to avoid highly sexualized
material that is intended for an adult audience." What effects does the "all-pervasive
sexualized media environment" have? "Pornography and sexual media can influence
sexual violence, sexual attitudes, moral values, and sexual activity of
children and youth," she said. "These research results, taken together,
demonstrate how teen Internet use has evolved over a short period of time,"
said Amy Sussman, National Science Foundation (NSF) program officer. "They
illustrate both the dangers and opportunities on the Web, as well as debunk
popularly held but incorrect notions about teen Internet use. The guidelines
based on the research should be helpful to parents and policy-makers alike."
To find out what young people are exposed
to on the Internet, Greenfield entered a Web area devoted to teenagers --
whose motto was "Be seen, be heard, be you" -- and was "shocked" by what she
found there, including unsolicited sexual advances from strangers.
"The sexuality expressed in a teen chat
room was public, linked to strangers and had nothing to do with
relationships," Greenfield said. "It was very explicit and focused on
physical acts, and often associated with the degradation of women. I started
to receive private instant messages, including a crude sexual advance, just
by hanging out at the chat room, even though I had not participated in any
of the ongoing conversations. "The unsolicited nature of these messages
could be daunting for adolescents, particularly younger ones," she added. "I
was not looking for unsolicited personal messages, sexual or otherwise, but
once I decided to enter the chat room, I could not avoid being exposed. I
was pursued sexually. I also found aggression, racism and prejudice in this
chat room (which no longer exists). Racism and hate are not limited to hate
sites. "We often consider the Internet to be a
repository of information, but my experiences in the chat room led me to
conclude that we need to question the values that we wish to convey, and the
disparity between those values and the ones to which teenagers are being
exposed. These are not only Internet issues, but issues of our culture in
general, and youth culture in particular." Greenfield also visited a teen chat room
that had adult monitors and rules to reduce offensive and crude comments.
She found that the chat there was quite different from the chat in the
unsupervised site; still, sex and aggression did not disappear; rather they
became hidden in code. "The participants in this teen chat room
were talking about sex a lot of the time," Greenfield said. "They were
referring to various forms of sex, all in code, without using words about
sex. The coded sexual allusions were still devoid of feelings and
relationships." These visits to teen chat rooms inspired
the research program just released in the current issue of the Journal of
Applied Developmental Psychology. A chat room is a "room" in cyberspace where
people congregate for online conversations, writing and reading messages.
Multiple conversations take place simultaneously and anonymously. Although
people in teen chat rooms often ask others to identify themselves by age,
sex and location in the coded lexicon of chat -- "a/s/l/" -- they do not
know who the others are. Kaveri Subrahmanyam, a professor at California
State University, Los Angeles, and a researcher at UCLA's Children's Digital
Media Center, found (with co-authors Greenfield and CDMC researcher
Brendesha Tynes) that chat participants were using this code to advertise
their own characteristics and find out those of others in order to engage
online in the normal teen activity of "pairing off." Subrahmanyam notes that
"Relative to offline dating, benefits are reduced; but so are the risks that
come with face-to-face interaction. For example, rejection in an online
setting with strangers probably stings less" than rejection from someone you
know. Teenagers and children use an elaborate
code to protect their privacy online, Greenfield said. When a parent is
nearby while a child is on the Internet, for example, the child may type POS
to indicate "parent over shoulder," Subrahmanyam said. Teenagers and sex information on the
Internet Health and sex information on the Internet can be found 24 hours a
day on Web pages, bulletin boards, newsgroups, listservs and chat rooms --
and teenagers are searching for, and finding, such information in
cyberspace. In the first study of peer health advice on
teen bulletin boards, members of UCLA's Children's Digital Media Center
found that while previous research indicates teens are reluctant to seek
face-to-face advice about sex from parents and other adults, adolescents are
readily accessing this information from their peers on online health
bulletin boards. "Internet health bulletin boards may
circumvent the awkwardness associated with asking sexual and relationship
questions, while seeming to satisfy adolescent needs by allowing teens to
candidly discuss issues about relationships and sexuality in their replies
to one another," report Lalita Suzuki, a CDMC member and a research
associate at HopeLab (a nonprofit organization in Palo Alto developing
interventions for young people with chronic illnesses) and Jerel Calzo,
another member of the UCLA center. Suzuki and Calzo analyzed the content on
two public health-oriented bulletin boards that addressed general teen
issues and teen sexual health. "Questions referring to sexual techniques
prompted a lot of interest in the teen sexual health issues board, and so
did interpersonal aspects of sex, such as problems with boyfriends and
girlfriends regarding whether or not to have sex," Suzuki and Calzo write.
"The general teen issues board also elicited many questions about what to do
in romantic relationships. Adolescents are actively using bulletin boards to
ask a variety of sensitive questions online, and they receive numerous
replies from online peers. The responses are filled with personal opinions,
advice and concrete information, and are often emotionally supportive."
Suzuki and Calzo cite examples of the
questions and comments teenagers post on online bulletin boards, revealing
fears and insecurities on a variety of topics, such as: Questions about romantic relationships were most frequently posted, such as tips for asking someone out, as were questions about sex, pregnancy and birth control. While replies were sometimes critical ("Don't be talking 'bout how you ain't superficial, 'cuz honey, you ARE," "Forgive me if I don't give you a standing ovation"), many more replies were helpful and supportive, and some who posted the questions expressed gratitude for the advice and information they received ("Thank you soooo much," "I don't feel as freaked out any more"). Reviews of our Top Internet Filters. Reviews Benefits of using Internet filters. Benefits
What teenagers do online In a separate study, the center's Elisheva Gross studied more than 200 students in seventh and 10th grades (with average ages of 12 and 15), in upper middle class suburban California schools to learn what they do online, and why. Among her findings:
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Race: a popular topic in teen chat rooms Conversations about race and ethnicity in teen chat rooms were studied in a research paper on the racial experiences of adolescents online. Is the "Net-generation" more accepting of diversity than previous generations? CDMC researcher Brendesha Tynes found that race is a common topic on teen chat rooms, and that teens identify themselves on the basis of race (such as a "Puerto Rican hottie"). She found plenty of ugly racial slurs, but encouraging news as well. "Many forms of racial hostility and negative stereotypes that exist offline are repeated in teen chat on the Internet," Tynes said. "However, for the most part, adolescent discussions were positive in nature. We found positive racial comments in 87 percent of the transcripts we studied, neutral comments in 76 percent, and negative references in 47 percent. In contrast, previous research has indicated that when race is discussed in adult online forums, it is often negative." "The taboo often associated with discussing race may be dissipating," Tynes said. "We believe we are approaching a time when diversity is valued and a common topic of conversation, which is an essential component of healthy race relations. Still, a good deal of work remains before we are free of negative racial attitudes and the expression of those attitudes." Tynes and co-authors UCLA undergraduate Lindsay Reynolds and Greenfield found significantly more racial and ethnic slurs in unmonitored teen chat rooms than in chat rooms with adult monitors and rules of conduct (do not harass or threaten, do not use hate speech, etc.). In a popular teen chat room, one chat session focused on music until the adult monitor announced that she was leaving for a short time. One of the teens wrote, "The HOST is gone ? !" and the conversation immediately changed to an antagonistic questioning of one of the participant's racial identity. White children, as well as minorities, are often victims of prejudice in teen chat rooms, Tynes found ("I hate when white boys act black," one teen said). She also found minorities criticized for "sounding white" in chat rooms. Examples of teens identifying themselves by race in chat rooms include: "hey, any one wanna chat with a hot 13/f/oh blond hair blue eyes 5'2 im me" (from a 13-year-old female in Ohio, asking to be sent private instant messages), "Any guys wanna chat wi a blk/rican gurl IM me Ill be waitin" (from a girl who identifies herself as black and Puerto Rican, also asking to be sent instant messages). Reviews of our Top Internet Filters. Reviews Benefits of using Internet filters. Benefits
Advice for parents Nearly half of students in grades three through eight reported visiting Web sites with "adult" content, according to a 1998 study, and that figure is likely to be higher today, Greenfield noted. Greenfield recommends that parents allow young children to use the Internet only under close supervision. "Without supervision," she said, "the risks far outweigh the potential benefits of unsupervised Internet use for young children." How can parents protect their children from material on the Internet offensive to their values without cutting their children off from everything on the Internet that is beneficial? "A warm parent-child relationship with open channels for communicating is the most important non-technical method that parents can use to deal with the challenges of the sexualized media environment," Greenfield said. She advises parents to discuss media experiences with their children, and to be open about discussing sex with their children. Parents should use the Internet and other media with their children, Greenfield advises, and should keep computers in a public room in the house, not in the child's bedroom. For boys at risk for aggressive, antisocial behavior, parents should carefully monitor and severely limit access to pornography on file-sharing networks and elsewhere, Greenfield said. Greenfield identifies another area of concern for parents: Children below age four or five typically cannot distinguish commercial from noncommercial content, and children younger than seven or eight do not realize the purpose of commercials is to sell products - yet the Internet is filled with commercials intermingled with content. "Worries about the effects of Web commercialism on children are more than justified," she said, adding that the Internet is successful in persuading children to convince their parents to buy them products they see advertised and promoted. "We should expect Internet use to lead to parent-child conflict when a parent has to fight such a persuasive socializing environment as the Internet." UCLA's Children's Digital Media Center studies the virtual worlds that children and teens create on the Internet and how those virtual worlds relate to their real-world lives and development. When the federally funded National Science Foundation established the Children's Digital Media Center, Greenfield said, "We hope to get deeper than researchers have before into the hidden lives of teenagers." "The UCLA researchers and the NSF-funded Children's Digital Media Center have produced some fascinating insights -- and this center is just one part of NSF's Children's Research Initiative Centers, which are also studying family, school and community factors that contribute to children's success," said Peg Barratt, National Science Foundation division director for behavior and cognitive sciences. The issue of the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology is dedicated to the memory of Rodney Cocking, a scholar whose interests included the relationship between child development and the electronic media. Cocking, who was murdered in 2002, established and served as program officer for the National Science Foundation's Developmental and Learning Sciences Program. The Children's Digital Media Center, funded for five years, has branches at Georgetown University, Northwestern University and the University of Texas, Austin, as well as UCLA. The lead branch, Georgetown's, is directed by professor Sandra Calvert. All four branches have contributed research articles to the special issue of the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology. At UCLA, the center includes researchers and students from departments of psychology, anthropology, education and psychiatry/biobehavioral sciences, as well as researchers from other institutions. Greenfield and her colleagues hope the centers' research will contribute to public policy decisions and will offer beneficial information to parents. "While many children and adolescents use chat, many parents have never been in a chat room, or even know what it is. Parents should know what is happening, and be involved. They need to be aware of what their children are doing in chat rooms, and be aware of the possible dangers, as well as the benefits. Some children are not ready for the content they are finding there," she said. Greenfield -- an expert in developmental and cultural psychology who has published on children and computers, video games, and television -- believes the Children's Digital Media Center can provide a unique window into an important world for children and teens, the world of electronic media.
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